I'm currently 38+5 and have been readin some womens stories about how far dialated they are at the same stage as me. Surely no doc or midwife would check (do an internal examination) b4 a due date and yet all these women seem 2 know. I've had a few pains 2day and would like to know if I have started dilating as I've had 2 very painful 'back labours' (lots of back pain and preasure the whole way thru) with my 2 boys. Thanks