Due date getting closer!! :((?

Question

Since my due date when i was suppose to give birth (i had a miscarriage) is getting closer i have been getting even more depressed:( everything is just so different..(for those of you who have a miscarriage you know what i mean) how can i make myself be happy and cheer myself?

Answer 1

I know girls who have had miscarrages and then healthy babies.... You may not be getting the attention now,and you are certainly depressed, but you should look inside of yourself and realize you did the best you could and be happy. You are doing any future kids, natural or adopted, a disservice by moping around. Get productive and start saving up.

Answer 2

I can relate. I miscarried in August and still check the weekly baby updates to see how my baby would be developing each week. On my baby's due date I plan to go get a small tattoo. I haven't decided on what exactly I'm getting, maybe a tiny pair of foot prints, a red star or a small set of wings. I know tattoos aren't for everyone but that is how I plan to cope. I want something just for me that I will have until the day I die to remember my little angel.

Answer 3

I think the only thing you can do is try to have another baby if you are at that stage in your life and you want one.

If it was unplanned to begin with, I guess then believe it wasn't the right time and there will be an even better time.

It always makes me feel better when I take a bubble bath or watch a sad movie to try to work through my issues. Then there's always the option of going out with friends and having a good time.