i live in BC Canada if it makes a difference
I went to the hospital and got a birthing room, had the baby, the immediately put him on me, I delivered placenta and was stitched up, they cleaned my up a bit and weighed my son in front of me, wrapped my son up. We called family they came and saw him (about 20mins after birth) after their visit he had a bath in the room we were in, they left he was with me, my son never left my side, he had a bassinet in the room but slept in my bed with me. the hospital was slow so we stayed in that room for the 3days, but if it was busy we'd be moved into just a normal room, not as spacious, and just a shower in thebathroom while this one had a large tub, i stayed 3days because it was first baby.
They continually checked my blood pressure and temperature as well as my sons temperature, they made sure nursing was fine, my dr checked me out each morning making sure i was healing, the nurse would periodically check my uterus (feeling stomach), and my son had his feet pricked for bloodwork the following morning, they brought me the paper work to fill out in my room.
packed:
going home outfit for son
basic gerber tees for him in hospital
(they supply diapers and wipes)
baby cap (they also supplied but mine was cuter)
recieving blankets (they also supplied but i didnt know this)
and a blanket to wrap him up in on way home
car seat (they wont let you leave without it)
I had my own toothbrust, deoderant, shampoo, soap, hairbrush, makeup, etc...
they have one use toothbrushes there and shampoo etc...
(I brought free sample shampoos from herbelessences.com etc..)
clothes, you can stay in their gown but with visitors i wore my own clothes the next day, you will still be huge, bring maternity clothes.
camera of course and i had the baby book to write down things before i forgot as well as many books to read, newborns sleep a lot and hospital TV is expensive
before i could leave I had to have had a Bowel movement and have my son buckled in (they checked) and had bathed him and changed diapers in front of nurse
i hope that helped!