Dream of miscarriage, and worried all the time?

Question

Last night I had a dream I was in the shower with my husband and I started to bleed, then all of a sudden I had this clot come out, when I picked it up it was the baby. It was horrible, I was screaming and crying, We went straight for the hospital to see if there was anything they could do, but stuff kept happening that would not let us make it to the hospital. It was the worst feeling in the world. But in real life I am so paranoid about a miscarraige. I am 11 weeks and have had no problems, I haven't been sick, I had a little bit of cramps in the beginning, but they were like period cramps and went away at 6 weeks. But no bleeding or spotting. A lot of times I don't even feeling pregnant, except for all the peeing. I think that is why I get so worried is because I just don't feel pregnant. Has anyone ever had a dream like this? I just need some positive thoughts! I can't wait till the end of 12 weeks, I am almost there, it would just be devestating to almost make it past the first trimester and then something happen. Please all support welcome.

Answer 1

Well my due date if Nov. 18 your due the day after me lol but unlike you having a dream. I experinced a miscarriage 4 months before becoming pregnant again so just feel my worries... but i think while your pregnant your dreams increase & they feel more realistic. But I try not to think negative & always keep positive expecially now that im pregnant for the second time & i find it a blessing.. your dream was a dream.. I know sometimes you don't feel pregnant, but the morning sickness is more than re-assuring at times..



Good luck & god bless!

Answer 2

I felt the same with my second, I had experienced a miscarriage 4 mths prior and thought for sure I was going to loose this baby too, I spotted and cramped and had 2 ultrasound before 12 weeks, the wait to make it to the next ultrasound was brutal, I needed so badly to know he was alright, I will say it got alot better once I could feel him move, it was reassuring, only sometimes when he would move frantically id freak out because of some stupid book I read that said it was a sign of distress,lol. My son was fine in the end, born 39 weeks perfectly healthy, your dreams are a direct result of your fear, take it one day at a time, best luck

Answer 3

It just means that you are worried about having a miscarriage. I had a lot of dreams like that and now I have a healthy 3 month old baby girl. I know its easier said than done, but you should just relax. Its something that if its going to happen, its going to happen (provided that you are keeping yourself healthy). Just worry about staying strong and being healthy. When I started relaxing about being pregnant, I started enjoying my pregnancy way better. To be honest with you, even after you hit the 12 week mark, you might still be worried. Most women have their mind eased at 5 months when they start feeling the baby move. Just relax. Good luck and wishing you a healthy pregnancy.

Answer 4

Dreams are your unconscious mind in vivid pictures. Just try to relax. I am 10w2d so I know what you are going through. I was really worried until I saw the HB at 9w. I just try to enjoy my days and stay busy. I wore my computer out on google looking up every little twinge or issue. Find something you can engage in like a safe hobby. Time will fly if you do. Good luck with your pregnancy and relax. It is better for the baby.

Answer 5

I had a reoccurring dream about me miscarrying till about 15/16 weeks. They were absolutely terrifying! I would wake up crying and screaming! I am now 35 weeks as of tomorrow and my little girl is doing great! Hang in there it will get better and the dreams will go away!

Answer 6

Yes third pregnancy and throughout my pregnancies i have had dreams of losing my baby and later on in pregnancy dreams that i have the baby but can't find he/she anywhere it's normal to be worried and anxious while pregnant, but remember it is just a dream so don't let it stress you out.

Answer 7

your obviously fearing this in your subconsious mind which is why you had the dream.you need to THINK POSITIVE :-D I didnt really feel pregnant until I saw my baby on the 12 week scan.As long as your healthy and your pregnancys normal you have nothing to worry about at all so set it firmly in your mind...everything is fine with the baby...and start looking forward to being a blooming mother :)

xx

Answer 8

Don't worry about your nightmare hun! It sounds like your pregnancy is going just fine. Some women don't experience a whole lot of symptoms anyway. I understand your concern since you're having dreams like that though... But they're only nightmares! I wish you a healthy pregnancy. :)

Answer 9

No you should not be concerned considering I had tons of desires approximately having a miscarriage however child boy continues to be great. Our unconscious concerns influence our desires greater than we believe.