Could I be pregnant? Seriously DESPERATE for help!?

Question

Okay, so I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16. Anyway, last night (May 4th, 2013) we were fooling around and things led to another in the heat of the moment and we almost had full on sex... but without a condom or birth control... now this was my first time doing anything with a guy. It's hard to explain exactly what happened because it was a bit unusual, but I'll try my best. So he stuck the tip in and went in a bit, but not all the way and basically we kept doing that... then he said he was about to come so he pulled out and went to the bathroom, finished himself off and then went pee. Then he came back and the same thing happened. He pulled out... went to the bathroom and finished himself off and went pee. Then he came back he stuck it in a little bit and we were done. He never went "fully" in. There was only a stretching pain, I do not believe he "popped my cherry" because there was no blood or anything. Anyway I'm very concerned about the pre-come because I know that it contains some sperm... but he never full on ejaculated inside of me. I'm really freaking out and I already told my mom. It only happened last night so I have some time to get the Plan B Emergency Contraception pill just in case there's a huge possibility that I might be pregnant. I just need some more information so that I know what's really happening.

Also, I started my last period Thursday, April 25th and ended it on Sunday, April 29th and the unprotected almost-full on sex happened May 4th. I'm just trying to give as much information as I can so that I can get information in return.

Don't get me wrong I COMPLETELY and WHOLEHEARTEDLY understand that what we did was a mistake, and that not using protection put us at more of a risk of pregnancy... Me and my boyfriend are very mature and we should have been smart enough even in the heat of the moment to protect ourselves. So please, please don't think we weren't ready... we just weren't prepared. I trust him and love him with all my heart as does he. I will fully own up to what I did and take full responsibility of making a wrong decision.

If anyone could give me some information that would be REALLY helpful. In the morning I'm calling Planned Parenthood so that I can get my prescription for the pill just in case. I'm not looking for a peace of mind answer I'm looking for a real answer.

I am completely DESPERATE for help, if you could give me some information or someone to call I'd really appreciate it.

Thank you so much ♥

Answer 1

I'm not exactly sure what it was you were asking, but its ALWAYS possible to get pregnant. Nothings 100% safe. Not even birth control, but, if you didn't have intercourse then most likely not. Its not often that *** survives long out side of the body so don't be too worried. Its good you have told your mum.

Answer 2

Its a good idea that you told your mom. Im 17 and i know what your going through. I had a pregnancy scare just last month. I honestly advice you to just take the plan B for preventive measures. And then start taking birth control. Its very unlikely that you are pregnant but theres still a miniscule chance and your 15, you have so much ahead of you. Now is really not the time for a baby. The plan B does mess up your period cycle. But i think its a good idea if you do. Its wonderful that your boyfriend and you are in love and your young and it happens, im speaking from experience and im close to how old you are so i can relate. Talk to your mom and she what she says.



I suggest the plan B and then birth control after. Make an appointment with your doctor and talk to her/him. Hope this helps and everything works out for you! :)

Answer 3

I'm 23 years old and a mommy to a 3 1/2 year old...





I totally understand what happened and how worried you are. Your young and inlove and it was in the heat of the moment. I think you will be fine. Its very very uncommon to get pregnant with only precum. I think you should consider going on birth control so that the chance of getting pregnant is lower and next time you fool around just make sure you have condoms near by... Or just have oral sex lol. But don't worry hun! If your really worried though then take the Plan B!



Take care hun

Answer 4

Unlikely that you are preggers especially if you have a 28 day cycle, too early in the cycle. It is kind of funny so don't feel bad. You can get the plan b but its my opinion you won't need it. GL.